Do you plan your life out to the letter? Do you see your life as some sort of map to follow, whereby you carve out many paths to lead you on to something specific?
You do? And how does that work out for you?
I have been told that planning in life is a good thing. By planning we gain control of our lives, we have something to work towards, we can succeed instead of floundering.
Well, in my experience, this is nonsense!
Some things are just out of our hands, we cannot control them regardless of what plans we put in place.
Just when you think you know your life, if you ever allow yourself to be assured of such things, this is when a curve ball comes right at you with gargantuan force!
Life is made up of the unexpected, I have always known that. I have never really relied on or been assured by plans. They provide no guarantee that things will run along smoothly. They are only plans, and not exactly divine intervention!
So, why do people make plans?? Why do they swear that such things can guide you and help you control events? Why do they lie?
Best laid plans are always laid to waste eventually. This is where fate comes into play.
I am always then reminded by a saying my great-grandmother used; ‘If something in life is meant to be it will never pass you by’. Exactly!
We may not always understand why things happen, but they do, and no amount of planning can prevent them from coming to fruition.
So, plan all you want, but sometimes life has alternative plans for you. Remember this, and you won’t ever feel too disappointed!